Questions for Reflection: October 22, 2023

On Sunday, October 22, 2023, Teaching Pastor Bruce Hess’ message is Part 2 from our sermon series  “The Power of Love”. Below are some questions for your personal or group reflection.

  1. Outside of God and your family, share three things that you would say you “love”!
  2. In our culture, so much of our concept of love is built around the dimensions of passion and/or affection. Why is it that those forms of love are not commanded in Scripture?
  3. When it comes to your relationships, when are you most easily irritated? Be transparent.
  4. Love is patient (with people). Rate yourself honestly on the “patient scale” from 1 to 10 (ten being the highest). What steps could you take to increase your expression of patience toward people in your life?
  5. John Sanderson has said this: “The reason impatience is such a noxious weed is because it leaves God out of our thinking.” How has God shown patience toward you? (Make a list)
  6. Love is kind. Rate yourself honestly on the “kindness scale” from 1-10 (ten being the highest).
    • Kindness can be expressed both in kind deeds and kind words towards others. Are you generally stronger expressing kind deeds or kind words.  Why?
    • What are some practical steps you can take this week to strengthen both where you are strongest and weakest
  7. Our model in the love arena of patience and kindness is God’s love for us.  Spend some time in prayer rehearsing and reviewing God’s patience and kindness toward you.

Sneak Peek: October 22, 2023

Hey Wildwood Family!

What a week it has been in the news on both on the international and national levels. The terrorist attack on innocent folks in Israel was gruesome and dismaying. The following protests and demonstrations around the globe underscore the truth that Israel will continue to be a center of attention in the world right up to the glorious return of our Great Savior.

Due to events, Wildwood’s leadership was moved to donate $1000 to the Joshua Fund both for relief efforts in Israel  and for sharing the truth of God’s Word in the region [note: you can go to joshuafund.com if you would like to donate individually].  As Psalm 122:6 directs, we pray for peace in Jerusalem (Israel). No need though for outright panic, our Sovereign King still rules from His throne (see Psalm 2).

With all the fighting and killing of civilians on both sides, especially women and children, please pray for the power of the Gospel to be unleashed both in Israel and in the Palestinian lands.  Jesus is still calling men, women, and children to himself!

By the way, if you have thought about going on the Father-Son campout beginning Friday, October 27, please sign up by this weekend (go to wildwoodchurch.org/campouts).  They plan to buy the food on Monday!

On another subject, if you would desire to have our Elders personally pray for you, many of our Elders will be available at the church facility this coming Wednesday, October 25, from 6:00 pm-6:30 pm.  Feel free to come by for prayer.

On Sunday we will continue our series The Power of Love (1 Corinthians 13:1-7) by starting to look at the character/anatomy of love biblically.  There’s plenty of foggy, fuzzy thinking about love in our culture. As we will see, part of the issue in the imprecision of the English language.  How can we love others if we don’t understand what love is!

You won’t want to miss this Sunday!

See you then.

Bruce

Questions for Reflection – October 15, 2023

On Sunday, October 15, 2023, Teaching Pastor Bruce Hess’ message is Part 1 from our sermon series  “The Power of Love”. Below are some questions for your personal or group reflection.

1. Bruce mentioned three classic songs about love.  What other songs about love come to your mind?

2.  In chapter 13:1-3 Paul clearly emphasizes this principle: If I __________, but do not have love, it means nothing.
Brainstorm a list of practices or actions that could fill in the blank.

3.  We all can have many different reasons for being tempted to boast about our self to others. What situations tend to most tempt you to be boastful?  Be honest!

4. When you come to church; small group; or a Sunday class, do we approach those times more often with the mindset “this is about me,” or with the mindset “this is about serving others?”  Why is that?  What can we do to avoid the former and be more consistent with the latter?

5. How does 1 Peter 4:10-11 apply to this discussion?

6. Bruce said that “Love in the N.T. comes in the shape of a cross.” What would you say that means?

7. Spend some time in prayer asking God to show how we can better reflect His love to others in our world.

Sneak Peek – October 15, 2023

Hey Wildwood Family!

Two things stand out to me from this week. One, fall is beginning to show its face. Frankly, I’m ready for some cooler weather. That is something I truly enjoy about our state—the variety of weather.  It’s fun to drag out some different clothing I haven’t seen for a number of weeks. Let’s not however hurry too quickly into potential ice storm weather!!!

The second thing that stands out this week would be the events in Israel. Some truly tragic events have unfolded. Hearts there have been torn apart by outright barbaric acts from a terrorist organization. One thing is quite certain, based on God’s prophetic promises to Israel, while nations and groups seek to wipe out Israel, God will not allow it. There is a day coming when our Lord Jesus will step out of heaven and his feet will touch down onto the Mount of Olives (see Zechariah 14:4; 8-9).  Righteousness will then rule the world and peace will be in Israel.

This Sunday will be special for two reasons.  One, I have the privilege of starting a new sermon series I’ve entitled, The Power of Love.  We will spend (Lord willing) five weeks delving into 1 Corinthians 13:1-7.  The first message will be this Sunday as Paul lays before us a key spiritual formula:  Everything (minus) Love = Nothing. It’s a formula we all need to be reminded of regularly.  Come join the adventure!

Second, this Sunday is special because it is Wildwood’s picnic and local outreach team fair starting at 5pm.  What a great way to be outdoors and spend time together as a broader church family.  Plenty of fun for the whole family: inflatables, games, food trucks, even $5 off coupons for the food trucks that will be there.  A big part of the fun is to have the opportunities to meet our local outreach partners face-to-face.  We’ve even added a hot dog stand this year.  Can it get any better than that? 😉

See you on Sunday!!

Bruce

Mission:Own (part 6) Sermon Audio, Video, & Questions

On October 8, 2023, at Wildwood Community Church, I preached a message based on 2 Corinthians 13:11-14. This message was part 6 of the “Mission:Own” sermon series. Below you will find questions related to the message for personal reflection or group discussion. You will also find the audio and video of the message to listen to/watch, download, or share.

 

Sermon Questions:

  1. Pray
  2. Read 2 Corinthians 13:11-14
  3. Over the past year, we have walked through 26 different sermons out of 2 Corinthians.  Is there any enduring thought or application that hit you during this study of 2 Corinthians?
  4. How important to you is unity in the church?  Where do you fit on a scale of 1-100, where 100 is UNITY IN THE CHURCH MATTERS A LOT TO ME, and 1 is I DON’T CARE ABOUT UNITY IN THE CHURCH?
  5. Paul calls the Corinthians to do a number of things to help preserve unity in the church.  He calls them to receive his admonition and make changes in their lives so that the “net” of the church in Corinth might be mended.  He calls them to be of one mind and to live at peace with one another.  He calls them to publicly display their unity in actions.  All this will reveal to the world that their God is love and peace.  Think about our church for a moment.  Does our lifestyle and response to God reveal to the world that “God is love and peace”?  How about you specifically … does your life reveal that your God is love and peace?
  6. In 13:14, Paul provides a beautiful benediction to his letter by pronouncing our Trinitarian God’s resources He has given to contribute toward unity in the church.  The grace of Jesus Christ, the love of God, and the fellowship of the Spirit.  In what way do these gifts from God contribute to unity between you and other believers? 
  7. What is one particular application you took away from this message?

 

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Mission: Own #6 10.08.23

 

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Scattered over the past nine months, I have had the privilege of preaching through Paul’s second letter to the Corinthians.  Over this span, and through 26 sermons, we have looked at each verse in this great letter.  Though this letter was originally penned from the Apostle Paul to the church in Corinth, its preservation in the Scripture reminds us that it actually is a letter from God to His church … including to you and me.

We have seen that Jesus has invited us to be on mission with Him in this life as we are lead in a triumphal procession spreading everywhere knowledge of Jesus Christ (2 Corinthians 2:14-ff).  Jesus has prepared us for this mission (chapters 1-2), briefed us on the nature of this mission (chapters 2-3), desires that we endure on this mission (chapters 4-7), that we help fund this mission (chapters 8-9), and that we own this mission (chapters 10-13).

To borrow a line from an old TV show … this is our mission.  Will we choose to accept it?

In the final 4 verses of this letter (13:11-14), Paul challenges us to own what we have heard.  He mixes a string of commands with three transformative reminders as a joyous parting shot for those who have owned the mission.  At first glance this looks like Mission:Impossible … but remember, with God ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE.

This Sunday, October 8, 2023, at Wildwood Community Church, we will study these verses together, then celebrate the Lord’s Table together.  Hope you can join us this Sunday in our 8:30, 9:45, or 11:00 worship service.  See you there … and bring friends!

 

P.S. If you have something from these series of messages that has stood out to you, I’d love to hear about it!

 

Mission:Own (part 5) Sermon Audio, Video, & Questions

On October 1, 2023, at Wildwood Community Church, I preached a message based on 2 Corinthians 13:1-10. This message was part 5 of the “Mission:Own” sermon series. Below you will find questions related to the message for personal reflection or group discussion. You will also find the audio and video of the message to listen to/watch, download, or share.

 

Sermon Questions:

  1. Pray
  2. Read 2 Corinthians 13:1-10
  3. Has there been a time in your life when you were in a pattern of behaving a certain way, got convicted of that behavior by the Holy Spirit, and then turned and began living in a different way?  Describe that time?  Have you seen this kind of a turn in the lives of others you know?
  4. We are used to thinking of Jesus as the Savior, not as the Judge.  However, Jesus will return one day to judge the world and we will be accountable to Him for our lives.  How does remembering this “judge” role of Jesus motivate you to be more accountable with your manner of living today?
  5. Paul’s heart was not to demonstrate his apostolic authority, but to see the Corinthians built up in the Lord.  This is the Lord’s desire for you as well – to have our lives built up in godliness as we follow Christ.  What are some areas of your life where you long to see your life “built up” more like Him? 
  6. Examine yourself.  What are the evidences of “Christ in you”?
  7. What is one particular application you took away from this message?

 

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Mission: Own #5 10.1.23

 

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A couple of months ago I was officiating a wedding at a (somewhat) familiar venue. I was heading to the rehearsal, and input the address of the chapel in my phone and began driving to my destination.

A funny thing happened though … since I had been to this place before, I thought I knew where I was going, so I was not paying much attention to the directions being spoken to me via my GPS. Siri told me to take the exit … but I blew right past it. Then the notifications started coming fast and furious. At every break in the highway, my phone was yelling at me to “turn around”! Eventually the reality began to sink in. Though I thought I was headed in the right direction, I had actually veered off course. Apparently I did not know where I was going as much as I thought!

At that point, I had a decision to make. Would I stop heading in the wrong direction, heed the voice of the eye in the sky, and do a 180 to get back on course … or would I keep driving and end up in Chickasha!!!! Since I was committed to getting to the wedding, I turned around and got back on course.

Has this ever happened to you? Just me? Oh well …

But this dynamic happens in more places that just our cars. It happens in our spiritual lives as well. Sometimes we THINK we know best. We think we know where we are going, and we allow our instincts to drive us into a set of decisions. We do what feels right to us in the moment, and that can drive us off course into sin.

If we are a follower of Jesus, though, something happens when we morally venture off course. We begin “hearing” a voice that tells us to “STOP,” “TURN AROUND,” and “HEAD THE OTHER DIRECTION.” This voice is the convicting work of the Holy Spirit speaking through the Scripture, other Christians we are in community with, or our conscience telling us that we are headed to the wrong destination. If we are believers in Jesus Christ, we say that we desire to follow Him … when we don’t God graciously prompts us to turn and get back on plan. When we listen to that voice and turn around to begin following Christ again, we do what the Bible calls “REPENTING.”

In 2 Corinthians 13:1-10, the Apostle Paul writes to a congregation of people he loves in Corinth. As he writes, the Holy Spirit is speaking through the Apostle to the Corinthians and asking them to repent. On Sunday at Wildwood Community Church in our 8:30, 9:45, and 11:00 worship services, we will be in part 5 of our “Mission:Own” sermon series as we see what this call to repentance is all about and what the current significance is for you and I. Hope to see you Sunday … and bring friends!

Mission:Own (part 4) Sermon Audio, Video, & Questions

On September 24, 2023, at Wildwood Community Church, I preached a message based on 2 Corinthians 12:11-21. This message was part 4 of the “Mission:Own” sermon series. Below you will find questions related to the message for personal reflection or group discussion. You will also find the audio and video of the message to listen to/watch, download, or share.

 

Sermon Questions:

  1. Pray
  2. Read 2 Corinthians 12:11-21
  3. What are some examples you have seen in your life of “knock-off” products or cheap imitation products designed to fool you into thinking they were actually the real thing?  How can you tell the difference between the “real deal” and the imposter?
  4. Paul says that he “gladly will spend and be spent” for the souls of the Corinthians.  This is a reminder that the true pastoral heart knows that ministry will cost them something.  As C.T. Studd said, “If Jesus Christ be God, and died for me, then no sacrifice can be too great for me to make for Him.” What are some of the “costs” associated with the ministry you are “owning” today (financial, time, etc.)?  If you cannot think of any “cost” today for the ministry you are “owning” perhaps the Lord would want you to take a step deeper into service to others?  What might that deeper step for you be?
  5. Paul’s concern was for the Corinthians, not for his own ego.  He wanted to see THEIR faith built up, not his own reputation.  In the ministry you are owning, is this your primary concern as well? 
  6. What are examples of the kinds of things you have seen create disunity in the church?  How might God use you to promote unity in your church this week?
  7. Undealt with sin (like rampant and blatant sexual sin) that is tolerated by a congregation ultimately hurts the testimony and spiritual growth of a church.  Is there any sin you need to repent of today and turn to Christ, living His way in the power of the Holy Spirit?
  8. What is one particular application you took away from this message?

 

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Mission: Own #4 9.24.23

 

 

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In the summer of 1995 I lived in Russia as a part of a summer mission with Campus Crusade for Christ.  The “wall” had recently fallen, and I was one of many outsiders who took advantage of the newfound opportunity to visit the former Soviet Union to share the hope of Jesus Christ with people in need.

When I arrived, I realized that some parts of “my world” had gone before me behind the iron curtain.  I still remember sitting in a Russian dorm room, having a student play for me Ace of Base and Metallica songs on CDs.  I also remember going to the grocery store and seeing hot dogs that were made in Kansas City, Missouri!  Parts of American society had made it to Volgograd ahead of the Gospel.

But in addition to these legitimate items in the city, there were also several counterfeits.  T-shirts were for sale on the street for “Reeebok” (that is not my typo … there really was an extra “e” in the shirt).  There were also “Nike” shoes with wrong shaped swooshes, and CD’s with photocopied covers.  There were lots of counterfeits of actual western products.

My experience in Russia reminded me that in this fallen world, sometimes people take the good name/image/likeness of a well-respected person or product and then exploit it for their own gain.  This tendency is only amplified further in our current world of  virtual realities, artificial intelligence, and deep fakes.

In our knock-off world, how do we recognize the real thing?

Let me take that a step deeper.  As followers of Jesus Christ, are there purported pastors, missionaries, and “Christian” workers who are masquerading as ministers, but are really wolves in sheep’s clothing?  Sadly, the answer is yes.

So how do you tell the fakes from the real thing?  Well, in order to spot counterfeit bills, the treasury department knows exactly what the REAL THING looks like, smells like, and feels like.  By knowing what the real thing is, they are able to see the slight differences in the knock-offs.

As Christians, we need to know what the true heart of a Pastor looks like, so we can avoid the imposters.  Of course, our ultimate “Pastor” is Jesus Himself.  He is the prototype, and all true ministers are only undershepherds tending His flock.  But we have other examples as well … including the Apostle Paul, who famously said to the Corinthians, “Follow me as I follow Christ.”  Paul truly was the real deal, so by looking at his example as a minister and missionary, we can see what the true pastoral heart looks like – how the real deal behaves, and what the faithful fear.

This Sunday, we will look at Paul’s example of faithful ministry in 2 Corinthians 12:11-21 in part 4 of our “Mission:Own” sermon series.  Hope to see you there at Wildwood in our 8:30, 9:45, and 11:00 services … and bring friends.