Deep + Wide (part 5) Sermon Preview

As something grows, it gets more complex.

When Kimberly and I first got married, we lived in a  500 square foot apartment.  This apartment had exactly 4 doors in it, and two of those doors connected to the bathroom that was the size of a small closet!  It was not luxurious, but it was effective for our life at that time: newlyweds in a new town.

Over time, our situation changed.  When we moved to Norman in 2001, we moved into a house that had 3 entire bedrooms … AND a living room!  Can you believe it?  This fit our life in that era, as we hosted dozens of people into our home each week as we were working in the college ministry at Wildwood.  Along with this larger house, however, came new responsibilities … mowing the lawn, raking leaves, fixing a roof leak that damaged the walls (no more did we have a landlord to call, it was on us now!) … and many other things.  The growth in our life brought exciting opportunities, but additional work and complexities.

Fast forward to today.  We now live in a different house (still only 3 bedrooms), but we now have 3 people living in that space, and a dog!  This has led us to further complicate life with things that accommodate raising a teenager, caring for an animal, and interacting with many more people now in my role as Senior Pastor.  The growth of our family has led to a more complex (and full) life.

We have limits to the complexities we can introduce into our lives.  Our family is only so big, our budget is limited, our emotional capacity is finite.  We find ourselves now asking questions like, “do we really want to plant that bush?  It would look pretty, but someone would then have to take care of it!”  Growth is good, but it has its limits.

I was thinking of this today as I looked at Acts 6:1-7.  This passage shows the very first church struggling with the growth it was experiencing.  Jesus said, “I will build My church …” and build it He did, starting in Jerusalem.  Within about a year, the church in Jerusalem had grown from just over 100 people to around 10,000 people (or more!)  That kind of growth meant the experience of the church had become more complex.  In fact, balls were getting dropped. The first church was not perfect.  Care was unevenly distributed among the people: not because the apostles didn’t care for all, but because they simply could not keep up with it all!

So, when the first church had this problem brought to their attention, what did they do?  Did they say, “we need to quit growing, it is too chaotic here?”  Did they say, “until we get everything perfect, we need to stop sharing our faith and making room for others?”  Did they say, “we are not going to plant any more spiritual seeds because someone will have to care for what grows in response?”

Nope.  That’s not what they said.

Instead they recognized something.  The growing width of the church actually set them up for continued depth of the church, as long as the apostles didn’t try to do it all themselves.  Jesus has built His church to scale, by equipping ALL believers with gifts to serve.  So as the church grows wider, it is increasingly filled with more gifted ministers!

A growing church is increasingly complex.  I have seen that first hand here at Wildwood Community Church.  But Jesus has a plan for that complexity, and it involves equipping and commissioning into service the Body of Christ.

This Sunday at Wildwood in our 8:30, 9:45, and 11:00 service, we will look at Acts 6:1-7 in part 5 of our “Deep + Wide” sermon series.  Hope you make plans to join us this week as we look at this exciting passage of Scripture together and ponder its significance for the church.  See you Sunday … and bring friends!

Deep + Wide (part 4) Sermon Audio, Video, & Questions

On Sunday, January 26, 2025, at Wildwood Community Church, I preached a sermon based on Acts 2:42-47.  This message was part 4 of the “Deep + Wide” sermon series.  Below you will find questions related to the message for personal reflection or group discussion.  You will also find audio and video from the message to listen to/watch, download or share.

Sermon Questions:

  1. Pray
  2. Read Acts 2:42-47
  3. What are some favorite memories you have inside a church building?  How about favorite church memories or moments with the people of God?
  4. Acts 2:42-47 gives us one of the few passages that describes a picture of the day to day life of the earliest church.  What stands out to you most about their experience?  What do you see that reminds you of churches you have experienced today?  In what ways is it different?
  5. Are you devoted to the “apostles’ teaching” (New Testament)?  How about to the fellowship of a local church (attending, relationships, prayer, financially)?  What would it look like for you to either START or CONTINUE to be devoted to these things?
  6. Who might the Lord have you share the good news of Jesus with this week?  Would you consider sharing the hope you have in Jesus with them and inviting them to church?
  7. Want more information about the Deep + Wide Campaign or to make a financial pledge to the facility expansion?  Visit wildwoodchurch.org/build
  8. What is one particular application you took away from this message?

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Deep & Wide #4 1.26.24

 

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Deep + Wide (part 4) Sermon Preview

Most of you know, I work vocationally at a church.  Today is my 24th  anniversary of being on staff at Wildwood Community Church.  For the past 9 years, I have been blessed to serve as the Senior Pastor.  I do not exaggerate when I say that serving Jesus here alongside an amazing leadership team and congregation has been one of the greatest honors of my life.

Because I work at the church, I have a unique privilege … I get to see a lot of what God is doing through Wildwood.  A lot of what He is doing is taking place away from our church building, in small groups in homes, among families, and through evangelistic outreaches in Norman and around the world in concert with our missionary partners.  God is at work!

But God also is at work through things happening in our building throughout the week.  Let’s take a look at a typical week around Wildwood’s facility:

Sunday morning:  Last Sunday we had over 1,000 people each hour gathering for worship and community (at our 9:45 and 11:00 hours) and over 300 at 8:30.  This includes people gathering for worship services, children, student, and adult Sunday school classes, and serving roles.  After church on Sunday, a collection of juniors and seniors in high school gathered for training and equipping as they serve their peers in Jesus’ name.

Monday-Friday during the day:  Our staff offices are filled with staff both preparing for ministry AND conducting ministry through discipleship, encouragement, and leadership development with the congregation.  Additionally, a number of groups (from local schools to our role as a local voting location for two precincts) use our facility for different programs.  We also hosted two memorial services in the past week.  We have a group of older adults (our Legacy Group for those 55+) that have lunch and a program once a month.  We also have a group that cares for our widows and provides programming options for them throughout the week (called Anna’s Friends).

Monday night:  Starting in less than two weeks (on February 3) Wildwood’s classrooms will be filled with adults taking our Equipping U. classes.  Already this semester, we have 137 adults enrolled in these classes designed to help equip followers of Jesus for the long haul.  (NOTE: there is still room to sign up at wildwoodchurch.org/eu to participate and connect with others this semester!)

Tuesday night:  Tuesday evenings are men’s Bible study nights at Wildwood.  Men gather to study the Scripture and encourage one another to walk with God, lead their families and live into God’s call on their lives.

Wednesday night:  Wednesday nights 100% of our building is used as we gather children in our AWANA classes, middle and high school students in their small groups, a women’s Bible study, and our worship team preparing for Sundays.  Over 500 people are here each Wednesday night for these opportunities.

Thursday morning:  On Thursday morning, Wildwood offers a number of different women’s Bible studies, as well as a children’s program for the children of those in the Bible study, aged pre-K and below.

Thursday night:  Wildwood is the Norman host for Bible Study Fellowship classes for men, women, and children.  Again, 100% of our building is used on this night helping people know and follow Christ.

Friday and Saturdays:  Activities on these two days vary, but include student ministry special events, leadership retreats for serving teams, weddings, and even an engagement (LAST SATURDAY AFTERNOON!)  We also host outreach events like the Mission Christmas Shoppe or “Parent Night Outs” for families in the Angels Foster Care network.

And Sunday … we start it all over again!

Now, why do I go through all of this?  I just want to highlight SOME of what the Lord is doing around Wildwood throughout each week.  As we move toward our facility expansion project in the Deep + Wide campaign, it is helpful to remember the depth and width of how God is using Wildwood each day of the week.

I also share these today, though, in preparation for our worship services at Wildwood on Sunday.  In our 8:30, 9:45, and 11:00 service this week we will be talking about what the VERY FIRST CHURCH did.  What did their week look like?  Where did they meet?  What kinds of things mattered to them?  We will explore this together on Sunday in part 4 of our series, as we explore Acts 2:42-47 (and a few other verses from chapters 3-5).  Make plans to be with us on Sunday … and bring friends!

Deep + Wide (part 3) Sermon Audio, Video, & Questions

On Sunday, January 19, 2025, at Wildwood Community Church, I preached a sermon based on Acts 2:37-41.  This message was part 3 of the “Deep + Wide” sermon series.  Below you will find questions related to the message for personal reflection or group discussion.  You will also find audio and video from the message to listen to/watch, download or share.

Sermon Questions:

  1. Pray
  2. Read Acts 2:37-41
  3. What have been the sizes of some of the churches you have been a part of in your life?  What do you consider to be a “big” church?  What do you consider to be a “small” church?  What are some of the advantages and challenges that big churches face?  That small churches face?
  4. The Holy Spirit is essential for the church to accomplish its God-given task.  The Spirit works both to communicate and to convict (in Acts 2:37-41).  In your life, how has the Holy Spirit worked to open your eyes to God’s truth?  How has the Holy Spirit convicted you of sin?
  5. The response Peter gives to those convicted was to “repent for the forgiveness of sins,” “being baptized and receiving the Holy Spirt.”  When did you first “repent” of your attitude concerning Christ and begin to follow Him?
  6. Have you been baptized since placing your faith in Christ?  If not, would you consider being baptized in our March 9 worship service?  To learn more, consider attending our baptism classes on January 26 at 11AM (visit wildwoodchurch.org/baptism for more details and to sign up)
  7. As God leads you regarding participation in the Deep + Wide initiative, you can always respond and let us know your financial pledge by filling out a virtual card at wildwoodchurch.org/build or by filling out a pledge card located on the Deep + Wide tables near all main Wildwood entrances.
  8. What is one particular application you took away from this message?

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Deep & Wide #3 1.19.25

 

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Deep + Wide (part 3) Sermon Preview

You have heard me say this before … “big” and “small” are relative terms.  I grew up in Bartlesville, Oklahoma.  At a population of 35,000, Bartlesville was the “big city” for those who lived in nearby Dewey (population 3,400) or Ramona (population 500).  However, Bartlesville is a “small town” to those who lived in Tulsa (population 411,000) … and Tulsa is a small town to those who live in New York City (population 8.25 million)!  I could keep going, but you get the idea.

Occasionally, when people hear that I am a Pastor they will ask me what size of a church Wildwood is.  “Is it a big church?”  some will ask?  Well, that depends on your experience.

Wildwood is the biggest church I have ever been a part of, so to me, Wildwood is “big.”  Last Sunday, we had about 2,000 people attend our church.  To many that is a “big” church.  Since the average American church has 70 attenders each weekend and 2/3 of American churches average less than 250 people per Sunday … many might think that Wildwood Community Church is a “big” church.

But do you want to know which church makes Wildwood look “small”?  Well, it would be the very first church that ever existed … and it would be that church on its VERY FIRST DAY.  That’s right, on “launch day” for the very first church, it had an estimated 3,500 people!

Wildwood has been a church following Jesus and shining His light in our community for 57 years.  God has been faithful to grow our church steadily over that time to the size it is today.  The first church in Jerusalem in the book of Acts, though, grew from 500 to 3,500 after its first public service!!!!!  WOW!

Jesus said He would grow His church, and He has done that.  From 12 to 500 to 3,500 to over a million Christians by  250 AD to a cumulative estimated total of 14 billion Christians over the past 2000 years!  JESUS. IS. BUILDING. HIS. CHURCH!!!!!!!

This Sunday at Wildwood Community Church, we will look at “Launch Day” for the very first church, the church in Jerusalem that was born when the Holy Spirit indwelt the first followers of Jesus on the day of Pentecost.  We will dive into Acts 2:37-41 to see how Jesus was building His church Deep and Wide from the very beginning.  Join us in our 8:30, 9:45, or 11:00 services for part 3 of our “Deep + Wide” sermon series.  We will also celebrate the Lord’s Supper together.  See you Sunday … and bring friends!

Deep + Wide (part 2) Sermon Audio, Video, & Questions

On Sunday, January 12, 2025, at Wildwood Community Church, I preached a sermon based on Philippians 4:14-20.  This message was part 2 of the “Deep + Wide” sermon series.  Below you will find questions related to the message for personal reflection or group discussion.  You will also find audio and video from the message to listen to/watch, download or share.

Sermon Questions:

  1. Pray
  2. Read Philippians 4:14-20
  3. What are some of the best teams you have been a part of?  In what ways did you partner together?  On those teams, did you experience the sentiment, “If you want to go fast go alone, if you want to go far, go together?” 
  4. One of the ways we partner together with other Christians for the gospel is with money.  We can give money together to help fund different causes.  Why do you think it can be hard for Christians to talk about money together?
  5. Paul talks about the gift that the Philippians gave brings fruit back to their account.  What are ways you have been blessed through giving financially to gospel causes?
  6. Giving also is an act of worship … a fragrant offering before the Lord.  Have you stopped to remember recently that all you have is from the Lord?  Take a moment to thank Him for His provision now.
  7. Would you take some time to pray together as an individual or with your group about how you might be involved in the Deep + Wide Campaign financially?  What would God have you do?  Want more info?  Visit wildwoodchurch.org/build
  8. What is one particular application you took away from this message?

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Deep & Wide #2 1.12.25

 

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I love being a part of teams.  As the old saying goes, “Want to go fast, go alone.  Want to go far, go together.”  I have found this saying to prove true (both on and off the field).

On the field, the examples are myriad.  Yes, Michael Jordan is the best basketball player of all time, but he didn’t win a title until Chicago had more Bulls in the stable.  When their organization was well built top to bottom, they won 6 world championships in 8 years.  Now, the OKC Thunder are in the midst of building a dynasty, but they are doing it by connecting all the pieces from the front office through their roster … not just giving multi-million dollar contracts to “stars” that never align.  They are built to “go far” not just “win now.”

Off the field, we see this also with companies who are “built to last” not just sell a product.  Companies that recognize and empower the giftedness of their employees are companies that attract and keep great talent and sustain growth over time.  And even families … families who recognize and celebrate the contributions and unique gifting of all members seem to weather better the storms of life, and choose to be together, even when they don’t have to.

If you want to go fast, go alone, but if you want to go far, go together.

This principle is also true in the church.  Jesus is building His church, and He is building it to function together.  He created us as a team, placed strategically inside His Body so that we would partner together; leaning on and following Jesus, as we live for His glory.  We may be able to be a part of some things on our own, but together as a church, we can do even more as we rely on His Spirit that is at work within us.

We partner together in many ways as a congregation … but one way in which we partner together is financially.  We can give funds to help those in need, send missionaries to distant cultures, support Pastors in their work, and offer ministry to reach the lost and disciple the found in our community.  But on occasion, we also can partner together to invest funds from this generation to build buildings that can be used for ministry that will impact generations to come.

This Sunday at Wildwood Community Church, in part 2 of our Deep + Wide series, we will look at Philippians 4:14-20 as we reflect more about how we can go far together by partnering financially for a gospel purpose.  Hope to see you Sunday in our 8:30, 9:45, or 11:00 service … and bring friends!

Deep + Wide (part 1) Sermon Audio, Video, & Questions

On Sunday, January 5, 2025, at Wildwood Community Church, I preached a sermon based on Matthew 16:13-19.  This message was part 1 of the “Deep + Wide” sermon series.  Below you will find questions related to the message for personal reflection or group discussion.  You will also find audio and video from the message to listen to/watch, download or share.

Sermon Questions:

  1. Pray
  2. Read Matthew 16:13-19
  3. What are some “gambles” you have taken in life?  How did they work out? 
  4. Jesus asks His disciples the most important question ever … “Who do you say Jesus is?”  How would you answer this question today?
  5. Jesus promises to build His congregation and nothing will be able to stop it.  What do you think Jesus was implying when He said these words?
  6. Jesus wants to grow us both DEEP and WIDE.  What are some ways in which you have seen God grow you (and those around you) deeper in your/their relationship with Him over time?
  7. What are some of the ways you have seen the church grow “wider” over time (reaching new people for Christ)?
  8. Mark presented today in rough terms (more info coming in the weeks ahead) the plans for facility expansion at Wildwood.  What are some ways you can imagine these spaces being used by God to allow Wildwood to grow DEEPER and WIDER?  Spend some time praying and asking God for direction for you about how you might be a part of this plan.
  9. What is one particular application you took away from this message?

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Deep & Wide #1 1.5.25

 

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Gambling. According to the Oxford dictionary, this word means “an enterprise undertaken or attempted with a risk of loss and a chance of profit or success.” By this definition:

* Playing the stock market is a gamble.
* Playing Blackjack at the casino is a gamble.
* Going for two when you are down one in a bowl game is a gamble (too soon?).
* Taking a new job and switching careers at the age of 42 is a gamble.

All of these situations meet the gambling standard: something you do with a significant chance of profit or loss. The stock could rise or fall. The hand could win or bust. You could win the game or lose it (again … too soon?) Your new career could be a great fit or a mismatch. The point is, you don’t know how it will turn out when you take action.

In truth, many things in our lives are gambles. BUT, you know what is absolutely NOT a gamble? Jesus’ work in the world. That is no gamble at all. It is a sure fire winner. What do I mean by that?

In Matthew 16:18, Jesus famously says, “I will build My church, and the gates of hell will not prevail against it.” Jesus was making a promise that He would build His congregation of followers and that nothing would stop its advance. Jesus was saying that betting on the Church was no gamble, because it’s success was guaranteed.

Now, when Jesus said that, He was not saying that any specific church organization had a guaranteed future. Sin, changing demographics, hard hearts, or various circumstances have stunted the growth or “removed the lamp stand” of many particular churches. Jesus was not saying that “Mark’s church” or “Luther’s church” or “John’s church” had a guaranteed future as an organization. What Jesus is saying is that HIS congregation will GROW and nothing can stop it! People who trust in Jesus, confess Him as Christ, and abide in Him are a part of something that has an eternal future that is ultimately up and to the right.

So what is the growth that Jesus talked about? I believe Jesus wants to grow His church both DEEP and WIDE.

What do we mean by that statement? How does Jesus grow His followers DEEP and WIDE? Well, that is the subject of a new series we are kicking off Sunday at Wildwood Community Church in our 8:30, 9:45, or 11:00 worship services. As we begin the New Year, we will spend 10 weeks surveying a number of New Testament passages helping us reflect on the growth Jesus brings to His church.

And here is something exciting … not only are we reflecting on what Jesus has done in history, we will also be talking about what Jesus is doing TODAY through Wildwood! Jesus is building His church at Wildwood both Deep and Wide … we will be sharing how we believe a building expansion at the church will be a great tool the Lord can use to further His mission in our community and beyond. This Sunday in part 1 of “Deep and Wide,” not only will we be looking at Matthew 16:13-20, but we will also reveal what is included in this facility expansion, and how we all can be a part of this ministry here at Wildwood.

Hope to see you this Sunday … and bring friends! Let’s follow Jesus together and live for His glory in the year ahead.